España gane la Liga EUROCOPA 2008!!!!

Yeah~~~ España gane la Liga EUROCOPA 2008!!!!


Los Españolas y aficionados van a celebrar en la calle despues las victorias de campeones de la Liga EUROCOPA 2008 en Junio 29, 2008~~


Aunque no me gusta juego o ver la programa de fútbol, todavia muy contento con ellas para la gana.


España!! España!!! España!!!! Quiero ir al España por la celebración!!!!! ^o^

My good friends

we long time didn't take any group photo la.......hahha, although we graduated for nearly 10 years, it seems we still look very young, are we?? ^_^

Belated Happy Father's Day

We went for dinner buffet at Mandarin Oriental Hotel last Tuesday (Jun 17) to celebrate Father's Day.

The reason we picked Mandarin Oriental is because i had buffet a week before last Tue, and which they served many good quality seafood there, especially the big big prawn & scallop!!! Unfortunately, they didn't serve the big prawn & scallop this time..... u_u But still, the quality of the food there are very good, and i also like the environment there coz' the seating there are very spacious, so, we can enjoy the eating~~~

Again, this time, other than the seafood, my most favorite item is.............................the "butter", it's soo soo creamy, smooth & fresh....I love it very much~~

My parents were so happy and we enjoyed the night there.... Happy Father's Day 2008!!!!


Do you think they will have "butter" for take away??

see, it has a small piece of gold on the cheese cake....so grand~~

西環錶佬，你好野！

真係要贊下西環擺街邊擋個錶佬~~~

我今日nick三隻錶去整。 圖左嘅錶唔知點解無左粒dick，中間嗰隻錶無電, 細佬話原來無用成3年，右邊嗰隻錶都係無電, 係我差不多6-7年前響銀行做嘅時候買。

雖然整粒dick竟然係最貴，不過佢總共都係收我HK$90 ja…好過我nick去原廠整~~~

唔知廿年後仲有無呢D街邊擋呢？？

The Decision to Marry

The next topic that I want to discuss here is about "Marriage", I believe my girls' friends would have interest to read this.

Experts said that Getting married is still the norm in our society, and that normally, over 90% of us will marry at least once. Here below are some motives that make people towards marry or towards singlehood:

1. Pushes toward marriage
-- Economic security
-- Influcence from mass media
-- Pressure from parents
-- Need to leave home
-- Interpersonal and personal reasons
-- Fear of independence
-- Loneliness
-- Cultural expectations, socialization
-- Regular sex
-- Guilt over singlehood

2. Pulls toward marriage
-- Influence of parents
-- Desire for family
-- Example of peers
-- Romanticization of marriage
-- Love
-- Physical attraction
-- Emotional attachment
-- Security, social status, prestige

3. Pushes toward singlehood
-- Poor communication with mate
-- Sexual frustration
-- Lack of friends, isolation, loneliness
-- Limitations on mobility and available experience
-- Influence and participation in women's movement

4. Pulls toward singlehood
-- Career opportunities
-- Variety of experiences
-- Self-sufficiency
-- Sexual availability
-- Exciting lifestyle
-- Freedom to change and experiment
-- Mobility
-- Sustaining friendships
-- Supportive groups
-- Men's and women's groups
-- Group living arrangements

So, what's your motives or what's the motives of your bf/gf?? If you understand more the motives of your mate, it may helps you to achieve your goal (marry or singlehood)~~~

Creating a positive interpersonal climate

Haha, a day have 2 posts~~~ It's seems too much for me and also for my audience~~~ ^_^

As today is black-cloud day, i use the time to study the Univ-material and also do some other reading; I finally complete a book called "Psychology Applied to Modern Life". Although it is not a very good book, it still kind of interesting and practical in a certain extent. And i would like to excerpt some of the interesting topics here.

The first topic I would like to excerpt is "Creating a positive interpersonal climate", here below is some suggestions into practice:


1. Learn to feel and communicate empathy
Empathy involves adopting another's frame of reference so you can understand his or her point of view. When you empathize with others, you genuinely appreciate their feelings and understand their problems. Empathy includes sensitvity to others' needs and acceptance of their feelings.

2. Practice withholding judgment
You can promote an open climate for communication by trying to be non-judgmental. This doesn't mean that you give up your right to have opinions and make judgments. It merely means that you should strive to interact with people in ways that don't put them on the spot (forced to offer an opinion when they would rather not) or make them feel inadequate.

3. Strive for honesty
Mutual trust and respect thrive on authenticity and honesty. Even if others don't know exactly what your underlying motives are, they often can sense that you're not being entirely honest. Of course, striving for honesty does not mean that we are bound to communicate everything we feel at any time to any person. Though it is true that some interactions necessarily involve pain -- for example, breaking up with a girlfriend or boyfriend -- we can avoid many unpleasant interactions by being truthful without being needlessly hurtful.

4. Approach others as equals
You may know from personal experience that most of us don't like to be reminded of another's higher status or greater ability. You can improve the effectiveness of your communication if you try to disregard status differences in your conversations. Especially when you have the higher status, it is better to approach people on equal terms.

5. Express your opinions tentatively
Rather than give the impression that you know all the answers, strive to communicate that your beliefs and attitudes are flexible and subject to revision. You can convey this message by using qualifying words or phrases. For example, instead of saying, "This is how we should do it", you might say, "There seem to be several pissible approaches; the one that seems the best to me is......What do you think?"

Black-Cloud, June 7 2008 (Sat)

It is 8:30am now. I suppose back to office for work due to too much outstanding tasks need to be handled (Hey, I work 5-day week! suppose no need to work on Sat ^_~)

It is Black-Cloud now, it rains so so heavy and has rains continuously for over 24 hours.

Well, actually, I start to find myself can wake-up early in the morning (haha, i must be getting older and older coz' old people normally can wake up early). But, morning time actually is a very good time to do the things, especially if doing personal things like reading, restructuing your mind and thoughts, etc.

Gotta to off coz' want to start reading the study-materials given by the Univ. ^_^

Enjoy the Black-Cloud Day!!!

Taken from the window of my room, the road has flooded~~ (8:xxam)

Haha, Gold-fishes swimming on the roads~~~ (capture this pic from newspaper)